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Understanding the Difference Between Inappropriateness and Individual Perceptions


Great day to you all ! Today, I'd like to address a topic that has been on my mind lately: the distinction between something being inherently inappropriate and someone finding it inappropriate based on their personal perspective. Specifically, I want to shed light on the self-defense techniques that I teach and how they might be perceived as inappropriate by some individuals.


First and foremost, I'd like to acknowledge and apologize if my teachings have inadvertently hurt anyone's feelings or made them uncomfortable. It is never my intention to cause harm or distress, and I genuinely believe that it's important to foster a safe and inclusive environment for all.


Now, let's delve into the crux of the matter. In today's world, issues such as knife crime, gang violence, and tragic fatalities unfortunately remain prevalent. It is within this context that I've developed self-defense techniques to equip individuals with the necessary skills to protect themselves in such situations. From my perspective, these techniques are highly appropriate given the alarming reality we face.

However, it's crucial to recognize that what may be appropriate to one person might be deemed inappropriate by another. We all come from diverse backgrounds, cultures, and experiences, which shape our unique perspectives. It's this diversity that makes our world so rich and interesting, but it also means that our views on appropriateness may differ widely.

When it comes to self-defense, it's essential to strike a balance between empowering individuals with effective techniques and considering the potential discomfort or unease of others. While I firmly believe in the importance of self-defense education, I also recognize the need for sensitivity and respect toward those who may find certain aspects inappropriate.


To bridge this gap, open and respectful dialogue is key. By engaging in constructive conversations, we can foster understanding and empathy, even when we have differing opinions. It's an opportunity to learn from one another and find common ground that benefits everyone involved.



In conclusion, the line between inappropriateness and individual perceptions is a complex one. What may be appropriate in one context could be viewed differently by others. As we navigate these intricacies, let's strive for compassion, empathy, and open-mindedness. Together, we can build a society where we acknowledge diverse perspectives while promoting safety, understanding, and mutual respect.



Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post. I encourage you to share your thoughts in the comments section below, as I value your opinions and insights. Let's continue this important conversation together!



Always B-smart 2 B-safe


Shaun



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